Modern Dating

Attachment talk is everywhere. Here's how to use it without turning it into a weapon.

Skip "what do you do." These questions tell you who someone actually is.

Chemistry reveals itself faster than you think, if you give it the right format.

Timing, framing, and the one sentence that changes the whole conversation.

You don't need a detox. You need a different app model.

It's not you. It's the incentive structure of the app you're using.

A practical framework for naming the thing you've both been avoiding naming.

Every bad dating app behavior now has a name. Knowing the vocabulary won't stop it from happening, but it will help you spot it faster.